What is the point?

I've never thought of myself as a writer. With two master's degrees, I've sworn I'd never write again. Yet, after spending nearly a decade as a preacher's wife, I find that there is just so much to say. Nothing that's incredibly important. But things that I feel I would like to keep safe for the future. Maybe my children will read this one day and be reminded of what God has done in our family, for our family, and through our family. Some things are sad; some bring joy; and some are just humorous. But all things written here are true.

This is the day that the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it. Psalm 118:24

In my nearly 10 years as a pastor's wife, I've learned so many things, most of which have been learned the hard way. I've learned what it's like to be in a church with only 16 members. I've learned what it's like to be a mother. I've learned what it's like to be surrounded by people, yet feel alone. I know what it's like to live in a manse (parsonage, church house). I've learned just what foods you MUST bring to a covered dish dinner. I've learned how to pray in earnest the Scriptures. I've learned to trust God in all things (okay, most things). I've learned what it's like to not really listen to your husband's sermon only to find that he really wants to know how THAT sermon was. I've learned to listen to my husband's sermons. I've learned what it's like to not have a pastor because your pastor gives all of his "pastoring energies" to his flock; he gives his family all the rest. I've learned that there are consequences to not honoring your husband, regardless of who he is. I've learned how wonderful and honoring this same man can be when you lose your mother to brain cancer. I've learned how wonderful it is to fellowship with a church family; to call this family "yours;" to tearfully leave them when God calls you to another "family." I've learned what love looks like on so many levels.

And this is just the beginning.

What is my point? My point is that I am a normal 34-year-old wife and mother who experiences the same things that any wife and mother experiences. I am no better, no more righteous, no more versed in the Word, no more patient that any other. In fact, I fear that there are times when I lack all that it takes to be a good minister's wife, much less just a good wife. But there are some things that are just different. I love my family and my life. I have been incredibly blessed! God remains faithful even if I don't. How fortunate I am!

I am inviting you to share with me some of the things that I learn daily being in a "different" position in the church. Whatever I share, keep in mind that each day is a day for the Lord. HE has given it to us so that we may enjoy Him! Rejoice!